Rant blog:( wedding catastrophe!

            Well I guess this is my blog where I get to rant… I will change the names of the people but this situation really ticks me off! I had this friend her name is Honna. We haven’t really been the best of friends but when she told me she was getting married to a really sweet guy his name is Derek and he has cystic fibrosis I was a little on edge. Honna is kind of the type of girl that doesn’t really care who she hurts as long as she gets attention and what she wants at the time. So she dubbed me bridesmaid in this farce of a wedding and I was fine with it I didn’t really think it would come to be anyway.

            So last weekend our friend that goes to MSU was down and we were all throwing together to get her some things that she needed. So I text Honna and say hey Ash is here you said you wanted to hang out and get that stuff, do you need a ride? She says sorry I am out of town. I though oh well she must be with her fiancé. Well Ash gets to down and says she talked to Derek on Facebook and he said that she absolutely forbade him to come to Lamar even to see his parents. Honna said she wanted time to hang out with her girls, which would have been us. So I got this horrible gut feeling that she was cheating on him.

            Now this was hard to decide because I knew in the back of my mind that she was back to her old ways and this guy was head over heals for her. So I text Derek and said, “Hey if you and Honna want to come down tonight you can come over to see Ash.” He said, “Honna is in town you girls have fun.” I said, “Oh I thought she was with you she said she was out of town.” Finally I had gotten it across to him that she was lying to all of us. He didn’t say much but that it worried him. I thought that was the last I would hear of it and she would just glaze over it.

            I was at work and Ash calls me at ten in the morning which isn’t normal for her so I answered and she told me that one of Derek’s friends had told him that she had cheated on him the last weekend and he confronted him and she told him not to “waste his breath.” Wow is all that I can say. He will only live to be 35 if he is lucky and he spent four thousand dollars on her wedding ring. I really feel horrible for the poor guy. At first I didn’t know if I was being out of line but if I was in that situation I would really want to know so I didn’t was any of the time I had.